The pastor had been talking with the men and then he said, “As a Christian man, the responsibility of having a good and godly relationship – the kind that pleases God- lies with you. Take the lead and give the relationship direction. You should have time together for prayer, sharing of the word, and fasting.”…

The wife, also a pastor, told the ladies, “Don’t pursue a man, let him pursue you. Even if you’re sure he’s God’s choice for you, do not pursue him. Waiting for the man to come to you may seem old fashioned to some people, but it’s good and it works. I read a novel sometime…