I’ll mention some of them.
1) a person who grew up in a violent family, and thinks of violence as being normal, a way to settle issues.
He/she doesn’t see hitting an offender as wrong
2) a person who has problems with alcohol and drugs
3) he/she has a history of reacting to issues with violence.
Shouted, slams the door, hits his fist on the table, etc
4) he/she has hit some people before.
5) he/she is emotionally out of control sometimes.
Etc
What to do
If you encounter these signs in your relationship,
1) you will need to pray,
2) tackle it by discussing with the man or woman. Ask questions concerning the emotion
3) note the kind of response you get. What he or she says, and the attitude. Very important
4) is the person a Christian? If he/she is not, that’s the starting point. The person must turn to Jesus and be born again, because without Him we can do nothing.
If he/she is already a Christian, then he/she needs help.
To be continued.
Attend the next Singleslink with Pastor Taiwo,
And read MY FIRST LOVE, YOU FOUND ME
To know how to handle such a situation.
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