Pastor Taiwo Odubiyi Ministries

If you are saved…
(By: Pastor Taiwo Odubiyi

I will say a little about God’s will for you in marriage.
Don’t use your upbringing as an excuse for bad behaviour in marriage.
Some people hold on to and use their upbringing as an excuse.
It is wrong.
If you have become a child of God, then old things have passed away, behold everything has become new.
Your parents could have fought all the time, that does not mean you have to fight in your marriage.
If you fight in your own marriage or relationship, it’s because you yield to the flesh.
Let go of your past.
Let go of your parents’ mistakes or bad examples.
Your mother might have been disrespectful to your father, that does not mean you have to act that way. You father could have slapped your mother in your presence, you shouldn’t repeat that misbehaviour.
You should act like a child of God that you are.
How can you be dead to sin and still live in it?
If you are saved, act like a saved woman/man, a saved wife/husband.
If you are saved, you have been changed.
Stop talking about how bad you used to be, and still can be.
Live like a true child of God and stop the cycle of sin that has been operating in your family.
If you don’t resist Satan, your parents’ mistakes will be repeated in your life.
Pray and make conscious efforts to glorify God in your life, relationship, and marriage
It shall be well in Jesus name.